Ashley St. Clair Spills Everything on Elon Musk

Ashley St. Clair apparently didn’t sign an NDA — and she wants you to know it.

The 27-year-old former conservative influencer posted a lengthy “get ready with me” TikTok video on May 15 that is, by any measure, one of the most detailed public accounts of what it’s actually like to be in Elon Musk’s orbit. And she held almost nothing back — touching on Amber Heard paternity rumors, secret Trump political dealings, eugenics-adjacent baby talk, and what she describes as Musk’s casual, ongoing preparations for the end of civilization.

St. Clair, who welcomed a son named Romulus with Musk in September 2024, says their relationship began in 2023 when she was 25 and he was 52. It became, in her words, “emotionally intimate.” A trip to St. Barts is where things shifted.

“At that point in my life, because I’m involved in MAGA and the right wing and I’m already a single mom,” she explained in the video, “the chances of me getting married and the white picket fence and the white dress, I believed that was out the window for me because I was already ‘stained’ as a single mom. But I wanted nothing more than to be a mom. I wanted more kids.”

She says she was ovulating during the St. Barts trip, they agreed to have a child, and his resources — financial and otherwise — made the idea appealing. It wasn’t until after she got pregnant that things started getting, as she put it, “weird.”

What Elon Said About Amber Heard, Grimes, and Shivon Zilis

Before agreeing to have his child, St. Clair says she did her due diligence and asked Musk point-blank about the other women in his life. She says she never wanted to put another woman in a situation where they believed they were in a monogamous relationship.

According to St. Clair, Musk told her things were “good” with Grimes — whose real name is Claire Boucher and who shares three children with Musk — and that his relationship with Tesla exec Shivon Zilis, who has welcomed four children with Musk via IVF, was essentially a “financial agreement.”

Then came the Amber Heard question. Rumors have long swirled that Musk may be the biological father of Heard’s children — Heard, who dated Musk for about a year in 2017, welcomed a daughter via surrogate in 2021 and twins via IVF in 2024, and is raising all three as a single mother. Reports have previously speculated that the former couple created embryos together during their relationship.

St. Clair says she went straight to the source.

“I asked straight up about Amber Heard,” she said. “He’s like, ‘No, I actually asked her because I thought [her kids] were mine, but she says that they’re not.’ At least that’s what he told me, but he also has a complicated relationship with the truth, so who knows?”

So by St. Clair’s account, Musk himself suspected he might be the father — and had to ask Heard directly. Whether that’s the full truth is another matter entirely, and St. Clair’s own caveat about his relationship with honesty hangs over the whole thing.

The Trump Revelation

St. Clair didn’t stop at the personal. She also took aim at Musk’s public political narrative, claiming he was actively working to support Donald Trump long before he made his dramatic public declaration of loyalty following the Butler assassination attempt in July 2024.

“When Butler happened — the assassination attempt on Trump — Elon comes out, and he’s like, ‘It’s this moment I have no choice but to support Donald Trump,’” she recalled. “I’m like, dude, what the f**k? You’ve already been working on a PAC for him. Like, you were already supporting him. Why are you lying about this being the catalyst for supporting Trump?”

She described Musk as someone who is very willing to “lie publicly and privately about stupid s**t” and said his habit of “misrepresenting things” made her deeply uncomfortable — particularly while she was pregnant with his child.

“A Legion of Children” Before the Apocalypse

Perhaps the most jaw-dropping section of the video involves what St. Clair says Musk told her about his reasons for wanting more children. She had already heard the rumors about Musk allegedly maintaining a “harem” of women he hoped to have children with — and her account suggests those rumors may not be entirely unfounded.

She says Musk’s views on immigration leaned more toward a eugenics framework than any concern for national security, and that the baby conversations took a genuinely alarming turn.

“While I’m pregnant, he’s telling me we need to use surrogates if we want to have a legion of children before the apocalypse or before the Civil War in America,” she said.

He also allegedly told her she should have a C-section because it’s “better for the head and the brain size” of the baby.

Musk, for context, has 14 known children with four different women: ex-wife Justine Wilson, Grimes, Zilis, and St. Clair. St. Clair says she also received messages from X creator Tiffany Fong claiming Musk was attempting to have a child with her just months after Romulus was born.

St. Clair closed out the video by noting she has “a bunch of attorneys watching,” is currently in “three different courts,” and has “people following me all the time” — context that makes the timing of this video feel less like a content play and more like someone who has decided she has nothing left to lose by talking.

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The Transgender Daughter Dispute

The TikTok wasn’t the only place St. Clair went after Musk this weekend. On May 17, she took to her Instagram Stories to call him out over a post he made on X that read: “The woke mind virus killed my son.”

The comment was directed at Musk’s transgender daughter Vivian Wilson, who changed her name and gender in 2022. The two are estranged — Musk has previously said in interviews that he had “lost” her and that she was “dead” to him.

St. Clair was having none of it. “Stop tweeting about your children in this way,” she wrote. “This is just NOT OK and IMO a promotion of violence against trans individuals.”

She went further, drawing a direct line between Musk’s posts and the safety of people around him: “When [Elon] would talk about me online, the threats against my family have always increased. This is true whether it is negative or positive. Elon is aware that he has this impact, particularly on those he posts negative about. The guy has 24/7 security.”

It’s a striking turn for someone who built her platform in MAGA circles — and it points to just how completely her relationship with Musk, and apparently with the politics she once championed, has broken down. In January, St. Clair filed a lawsuit against Musk’s company xAI over sexualized deepfakes of her created on X using Grok. The legal battles, it seems, are far from over.